Hypocrites::RANT::

Are #2 on my list of “Types of People” I can’t stand.

So I am on a hair forum where there are a TON of hypocrites.

The scenario is basically a question was asked about a members avatar photo. There were no names given just the question. So for the most part people just said what they would do but within a few pages the Hypocrites start pouring in [I won’t even comment on the troll]… I mean they were just talking big shit… Now you may be wondering “How does that make them hypocrites?”…My answer is simple, whenever someone posts a thread including a celeb picture or a random club picture [i.e.:: Alltheparties.com, ATLpics ;;etc] they go hard... Calling the people everything but a child of God…


It’s so annoying…I will admit I would participate in those threads, but then there was an incident where someone’s pics were taken off of one site and posted on another. I was outraged but a good friend{Side Eye Sr.} made me realize that I was just as guilty because I made comments about celebs…So I stopped because I would never want anyone to do that too me…

I mean these chicks believe that celebs “ask for this” by becoming celebs….Really? So if we used this logic in life then I guess victims in certain crimes “ask for it” too…You know like if I have the money to buy a nice car then it’s my fault that’s its stolen since I “showed it off”….Whatever…give me a fuckin’ break…


I am just so sick of people like this…There is a lady at my job like this too….Lawd she is the worst! I mean she just goes hard about other people and so many things but when the mirror is facing her and her people then its “oh this isn’t that same because it’s my family”…GTFOOHWTBS!!!!


UGH !!!....

[end/rant]

Celibacy:: The Slow Death of my Sexual Libido::

(source::http://blog.sweetestmemories.com/default.asp?Archive=200606)

Due to a very unfortunate situation I decided that I wanted to take the long, frustrating road that is celibacy. I figured that it would be a great way to get over my ex and get to know myself…Boy was I wrong…this has been the longest , most sexually frustrating year of my life…lol…

I would have never guessed that it would have been this hard. I mean logically I was like “hey Peachy, before 17 you were “celibate” so to speak , so doing it now at a mature 26 should be fine…

I wish this would have been fine…I can go a few weeks at a time and not have any feelings of lust and then BAM…the angel & devil of celibacy pop up…The devil taunting me to just call my ex or one of the random guys that wants to be with me…Meanwhile the angel is trying to convince me to wait until I find “Mr. Right”…wherever the hell he is…


It’s such a hard thing to deal with. While I feel that my next ‘homie;lover;friend’ should really prove his worthiness of the goodies it’s becoming more evident to me that I need to grade these dudes on a curve …Not that I should lower my standards but maybe I should bend a little…

I know one thing for sure when I finally do unleash on someone MY GAWD they better be ready because I will probably explode and blow bits of Peachy EVERYWHERE…LOL...

..::Jumpin' The Broom::..

Living in the south, I see teenage girls who are groomed from a very young age to get married after college. It’s almost like a Wedding Timeline for Southern Belles.

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The steps are very easy…

Go to a college
Meet your fiancé’
Get a degree ( in anything)
Marry your college sweet heart
Work in your chosen career field for 2-4 years
Have a baby
Become a stay at home mom
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I have seen this countless times and it makes me insane some days. It makes me feel inadequate for not doing as so many of my friends have done. I mean why can’t I be married, why did I have to do step # 6 before all of the rest. Why didn’t I listen to my mother about my son’s father?...

I thought that he would be “The One” …HA!...he showed his signs long ago but being 17 I didn’t take heed. Hell at 23 I didn’t want to believe the signs. I thought having a baby and finally getting our own would “change” him. So naïve…

Although I would love to be married I am happy I didn’t settle like other people I know. I couldn’t imagine being in an unhappy marriage. I don’t know how people do it.

There are times when I get sad about being single but then I remember that I want to be happy in whatever relationship I choose to be in and chill the hell out. It gets hard but I know one day My Prince will come…lol…Yeah I watch too many Disney movies but some dude , somewhere is waiting for Peachy and when I find him, I won’t let go, unless he’s nuttier than squirrel sh*t then I am cutting him loose with the quickness…lol…

Catching Up...

Where do I begin, so much has changed since I decided to start this blog. My priorities and aspects on life have changed drastically. All the things I thought that I wanted and/or needed seem like silly dreams.

When I was 17 year old I often pictured the 26 year old Peachy as a wife/mother/career woman who would have had it all, ha, what a fantasy. In reality 26 year old Peachy is 1 of those things, a mother. Motherhood is something I wouldn’t change for the world. Partly because of the amazing genius I call my son. My Dooters is my entire world. He is the greatest 2 year old I know and I know quite a few of these little adult people.::hehehe::


I know that one day I will make someone a great wife and my fantasy will be my reality until then I continue to focus in finishing my college degree(s). I am currently pursuing my associates in Social Work. It is amazingly scary how close to completion I am. I almost don’t want to finish because I feel like it will force me to stop walking by the mirror and seeing 17 year old carefree Peachy but I know in order to better my son’s life I have to complete at the very least my Master’s in Social Work.

I can say that for the 1st time in a long time I am about 80% happy with my life and the other 20% can be easily changed and in the next 540 days it will be…

It's Been A Minutue...

So I started this when I was very busy and didn't keep up...Anywho I am back now and committing myself to blogging at least once a week...So stay tuned...

Love Ya's,

Peachy

My 1st Offical Blog..

Yay...I started a blog....I have posted a couple on Myspace , which I will share here, but this is new...Expect to see new entries at least once a week...I am very random and tend to rant or vent in my writings sometimes , so don't be alarmed if I switch up my style a bit..


See ya soon,

Peachy...